Hello, I'm planning on an April or early May trip to Disneyland. I'd REALLY like to be there during my birthday - May 6th. Looks like Grad night is the 4th & 5th and also the following weekend. How bad are the crowds with Grad night really? I went in September when the park hours were from 10am - 9pm and it was AWFUL (with Maxpass we barely made it on all the fastpass rides in Disneyland). If Grad nights are that bad - I'll go the last week of April and hopefully Disney will still let me get the Birthday button. My plan is to be there for 5 days so I can take LONG breaks in the afternoon and do things I haven't done ( like the parades, maybe some of the shows that are meant for kids that I've never seen). A more relaxed pace.