Maggie, don't worry. Be happy. I think you can do it. There are two ways, they qualify for AP discounts. One way is if they are owners, whose contract was purchased DIRECT. But they also qualify for AP discounts if they live with you, and you are buying it for them. I would just go ahead and do it - TRY to upgrade it, BEFORE the end of your trip. This can be done the first day, or the last day, or any day in between. And I would start out trying to do it on an early day. I have called Member Services multiple times to purchase APs or upgrade Tickets to APs, and I have never yet had them ask me to PROVE that someone who I was purchasing the ticket for, actually deserved it. I have had them quote the rule once or twice and I have just said, "Yep, they qualify." If they ask, just tell them that your daughter and her family live with you, at your house. How can they know this is not true. IF they make them produce Drivers Licenses, just go ahead and show them the Drivers Licenses. If they comment on a different address, just say that is where your daughter and her family lived previously. BEFORE THEY HAD TO MOVE BACK HOME. If you call Member Services and someone refuses to do it for you, then just call back a few minutes later and talk to someone else. Keep it up until you find someone who will do it for you. You can also do this at almost any ticket window. Just go up to the window with your own blue card and ask to upgrade the tickets to passes. If they ask for IDs (and they probably will), just show them. I have done this multiple times and my kids who DID NOT live with me had different addresses, but none of the cast members ever mentioned it to me, if they even noticed. Just like I said with calling Member Services, if one ticket window refuses to do it for you, just go to a different ticket window, around the corner or in a different park, and try again, and again, and again. EVENTUALLY, YOU SHOULD FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL DO IT. You DO probably need to have your family members with you, around you, while you are doing it at the ticket window. Keep in mind, Disney Cast Members WANT to serve you. It is their job, and they are good at it. They WANT you to be happy. They DO NOT WANT to have to be sticklers and enforce rules, so even if they 'wonder' about it, they will often let it slide. If your Daughter and her family number more than 6 people (since I think you can only buy a maximum of 6 passes for 'family,') then just get 6 at one window and then try again later at another window for the other family members. Or, you get some of the APs and have your husband get the others, at a different window. You might also want to bring a xerox copy of the finished contract with you, with their names on it. If all else fails, and you have tried multiple times, show the cast member the contract, and explain that it is in the process of being recorded by Disney. You can also go online and print out the Orange County Florida Comptrollers Office page where it shows that the Deed has been recorded. Maybe this will help convince some cast member to help you, if all else fails. I have 4 adult children, and they are all owners on my contracts now. However, they weren't always. Of my 4 children, two of them live at home with us. One of them has been divorced twice and moved back home. The other never left. Of my other 2 children, they both have families and their own homes which they purchased. One family consists of 4 people and one consists of 5. But BEFORE they purchased, THEY LIVED WITH US, with their children. (Yes, I have a large house, and a basement, too.) I NEVER had a problem getting Annual Passes for them, either before they moved out, or after. The fact is, your daughter and her family deserve it anyway. it is just a vaguary of the rules that they can't do it for themselves, yet. It IS true that Disney WILL NOT record the deed while there is an existing reservation on it. You need to contact them the day that you are finishing up with your time in the park, and they will do it almost immediately. Anyway, I hope this helps. Maybe someone else has different experience, or maybe DISNEY has decided to really REALLY enforce the rules, but I doubt it. Just try, try again. And, lest someone get mad at me, I do have my kids on 5 different contracts, two of which are for 75 points each and were purchased direct. But I, too had to wait. I submitted my contracts to Disney, all finished and ready, LAST AUGUST! But they did not record them until THIS MAY, when our reservation was finished. I'm glad I don't have to worry about it anymore.