I guess I always still send cards, then the relationship dictates what else I do. Calls to those closest for sure, but I have also sent texts/emails with offers to do specific things, like taking over the lawn cutting. Sometimes during that initial phone call the grieving family is still in shock, and if so, I send the texts/emails a few days later. I figure they can read those when they have time versus me calling so soon again while they are trying to handle all sorts of other matters. And maybe if it is in writing it won’t be as easily forgotten as a verbal offer while they are so overwhelmed. It really depends on the relationship and how the family seems to be holding up.