We are tentatively planning a trip with our grandchildren next March. Our granddaughter will have just turned ten before our trip. I see that menus say the children's meal is for 9 and under. When I look at the menu, I often don't see things that I think our granddaughter will eat off the adult menu. Do they bend the rules at all on the age? I understand that if we go to a character meal we will have to pay the adult price (ouch!) for her, but what about an alacarte menu? Thanks!