Originally posted by crisi
My take:
Who do you want to see: Mickey? Princesses? Pooh? Minnie? Donald?
What meal do you want to eat: Breakfast? Lunch? Dinner? Ice Cream?
Do you have a preference for serving style: Family Style? Buffet? Plated?
Where are you going to be: MK? Epcot? AK? Which resort are you staying at: Poly? Y&BC?
How much do you want to spend?
How important is each of these things to you? Is seeing Cinderella important enough to make the phone call in the wee hours of the morning? Is the cost savings of the Ice Cream Social important enough to arrange to be in Epcot that day?
For instance, wanting to see Minnie and staying at the Y&BC makes Cape May a no-brainer - unless you hate buffets. It might make princesses at Epcot more attractive than princesses at CRT. Wanting a dinner buffet will likely send you to Chef Mickey's or Crystal Palace, where if you prefer plated or family style, Garden Grill or LTT might get more points. Only Garden Grill offers the lower cost ice cream social option.
In my mind, none of the food is out of this world. And character interaction is a flaky thing - some people will get great character interaction at CRT, the next post will be about how rushed they felt and how the Princesses barely stopped for long enough to snap a photo. So go for the objective, not the subjective - at least to narrow your choices.