- Apr 15, 2007
You would think that since I bake my husband’s favorite for him every year that he would get a clue. No such luck.
I also would recommend that you just ask him, instead of expecting him to put the pieces together. It took me several years of my 21 years of marriage to figure this out. When we expect our spouse to figure it out we set ourselves up to be hurt, and our spouses to be hurt by the way we act towards them, when it was totally avoidable.OP, if you want a cake, ask for it. I do think that spouses sometimes are just oblivious to certain things, especially if it hasn't been the norm of getting you a cake after so many years. He probably just doesn't even realize it's something you would want.
Alternatively, if you want to splurge, and don't have a local bakery you love.... Publix's cakes are so good!