I'm curious if there was a FP system in place when you first toured WDW and were old enough to have real understanding of how you wanted to tour the parks? I'm struggling how to word the question not to make it sound rude or condescending, so I hope you'll accept that's not my intent. I'm simply curious if when someone started visiting and enjoying Disney impacts their preferences. My first visit was as a child in the first summertime period of operation with only MK. Returned as an adult with 3 parks and no FP. For me no FP is by far the superior experience, not even close.
Yep, for us it boils down to no longer being allowed to wander, partaking of whatever we come across on a whim. More than once in the past I've received comments back insisting it's entirely possible to do that today. No, no, it's not. Today that means bypassing multiple attractions because we aren't signed up for the queue or spending the day waiting in fairly long lines for a few attractions (actually not sure standby is even available anymore without signing up?). No desire to sit around a theme park, "enjoying the ambiance", while convincing myself it's oh so beautiful and fun amongst immense crowds. There are actually many, many places around the world with far more beautiful surroundings I can enjoy more comfortably (and more affordably) than a theme park. Zero desire to spend a theme park vacation frustrated and chasing opportunities on our phones to visit attractions we've paid to partake in. All the shops essentially hawk the same soulless merchandise. No matter the price point I expect to sit down to dine on overall mass-produced foods in crowded, overstimulating environments of pretty basic comfort levels at best. As I write they're crushing the last bits of ambiance we loved at our favorite resort.
Our complaints didn't really spring from pricing, although we have zero desire of plunking down the current costs of a visit. For us it was the loss of ability to deliver the Disney Difference. After ten years of waiting for course correction to what appeals for us, we've accepted those days are over. There's obviously plenty of people who enjoy the current version, so it's clearly an us problem.