Yes, This Was a Thing

My grandma, born in 1921, was left handed and at school had her hand tied behind her back to stop her from using it. My mom, born in 1948, was left handed and also forced to become right handed. She still has to stop and think about which hand to use when doing menial tasks like buttering bread. I, born in 1976, am also a leftie and they told the teacher at the start of kindergarten that I was to remain that way.

I do throw with my right hand and kick a ball with my right foot. My right handed dad kicked the soccer balls with his left foot.
 
My mom was left handed and I remember her telling me school tried to get her to become right handed.

My youngest is also left handed. I was one of those mom's that would have come unglued if they tried to make her right handed or feel it was wrong to be left handed.
 
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My daughter is a leftie. No one in our family deterred her from being one. Sad it ever was considered "wrong."

The only issue we had was teaching how to tie shoes. :confused3 I don't know why it kept getting lost in translation, but it did. Even when we faced each other. I found a YouTube video on left handed shoe tying and after she watched it a dozen+ times it clicked! :D

I hear this!!! I'm left handed. My sons are right handed. I could not teach them to tie their shoes! My right handed husband had to teach them.

I was in school in the 80s and 90s- nobody seemed to care I was left handed. I hardly ever even think of it unless someone points it out....my cousin makes fun of my check marks, says I make them backwards! Lol
 


I was in Catholic school in 1966/1967 learning “penmanship” and I recall that using whatever hand felt comfortable was allowed. I was always intrigued by my left handed classmates as everyone in my immediate family was right handed. What I can’t forget is learning to write with fountain pens rather than ball points. I don’t think we were permitted to use ball point pens until the early ‘70s.
 
Left handed except for scissors and instruments. I also pick up coffee mugs with my right hand I think. There may be a few other things that I do right-handed but can't think of them at the moment, I think I don't pay too much attention, just whatever feels more comfortable. I definitely cannot write with my right hand though.... my left-hand handwriting is bad enough!

I am also left handed, but use scissors in my right hand.
 
Grandmother was always trying to get me and my brother to eat with our right hands.
That's too bad. My grandmother was always trying to get us to eat with utensils.
I wish I had followed the lead of my right-handed daughter. Just to be different, she taught herself to flip the paper upside-down and write upside-down.
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Write? Or print? I can print upside down.

My mom was left-handed back when schools tried to force kids to be right-handed. One of my siblings is left-handed, and my parents (especially my mom) made sure the school didn't try to retrain her.
 


My mother said the nuns in Catholic school forced her to write with her right hand. Late 1930's. And students were graded for penmanship, and my mother would always receive a C-.

My mom, naturally left-handed, was also forced to write righty around the same time, but in public school. When you think about it now, it really was an awful thing to do to a child.

DS is lefty. It was apparent from a very early age; as an infant, he would always reach for things with his left hand. Until I had him, I never realized how so many everyday objects are designed for right-handed people.

Interesting trivia fact: 5 of the last 8 US Presidents have been left-handed.
 
I am a lefty, went to public school in the 60s. My Mom's Dad was a natural lefty but grew up in Scotland 1900s before WW1. He was forced to be a righty and ended up having a slight sutter. My parents never tried to "correct " me & I don't recall any teachers trying to change me.
My school had some left handed scissors but I have always used regular scissors with either hand. In sports ( not that I was an athlete 😉) I was a mix.Tennis was left handed but softball was as a righty. My main issue as a child was learning to tie my shoes , as I was being taught by my right handed parents.
 
I am also left handed, but use scissors in my right hand.

When I was in elementary school my art teacher just assumed I needed lefty scissors and I couldn't understand why I had so much trouble cutting paper, I remember thinking, what kind of idiot can't cut a piece of paper?!
 
I always wondered about specific conventions. Obviously the whole left handed fork thing was not about putting the fork in the dominant hand of most people.

The one thing I might not be able to figure out would be how to drive a right hand drive manual transmission car. It's not necessarily about hand dominance but that everything is wired into place by now that I steer with the left and shift with the right. It would especially weird me out that the pedals are in the same relative position.
 
When I was in elementary school my art teacher just assumed I needed lefty scissors and I couldn't understand why I had so much trouble cutting paper, I remember thinking, what kind of idiot can't cut a piece of paper?!
I can't use left handed scissors. Can never find the correct angle of the blade. On the other hand (literally, LOL) I can use regular scissors in either the left or right hand. Can also write slanted upside down on those single side right handed desks prevalent in some of my schools.
 
When I was in elementary school my art teacher just assumed I needed lefty scissors and I couldn't understand why I had so much trouble cutting paper, I remember thinking, what kind of idiot can't cut a piece of paper?!

Hahaha!! Same thing happened to me!
 
I'd always heard about instances where people were "forced" to be right handed, but I did not realize it was so common until reading this thread. My grandfather is left handed, was born in 1930, and Catholic. Nothing has ever been mentioned about being left handed or having issues in school. He does have horrible handwriting though. I don't think I've actually ever seen him write other than signing his name and jotting down numbers (he was a contractor).
 
My dad (who is a lefty) was born in '52 and regularly faced nonsense like this!
 
My dad is left-handed and said the nuns in school (Catholic school, 1950s) tried to get him to switch, too. He's still left-handed, but holds his pen very strangely with his left arm curled almost into a spiral so his hand is above and in front of what he's writing.

I'm right-handed but I use the computer mouse with my left hand, so my right hand is free to write while I mouse. (And, in line with what NotUrsula said, I learned D'Nealean writing. Catholic School, late 70s/early 80s.)

My son is left-handed and has never been pressured to switch. He does most things lefty, but can use right-handed scissors (because unless you've brought your own, left-handed scissors are hard to find). I don't remember him having issues learning to tie his shoes.

When "Guitar Hero" was a popular video game, he used to turn the guitar upside down so he could do the buttons on the neck of the guitar with his left hand -- and then he would mentally transpose the notes on the screen (the button that was on the right of the screen was now on the left in his hand.) There was a "lefty mode" in the game where you could flip what was showing on the screen, but he refused to use that. I remember thinking that had to be a lot of extra mental work when the game was already fast-moving, but he was pretty darn good at the game notwithstanding.
 
My mom went to Catholic school and was made to write with her right hand even though she was a lefty.

What group of people decided for the rest of us that writing with the left hand was some sort of terrible characteristic?
 
My mom went to Catholic school and was made to write with her right hand even though she was a lefty.

What group of people decided for the rest of us that writing with the left hand was some sort of terrible characteristic?
Religious people who didn't know better.
 
My late MIL also was a leftie forced to write right-handed; she never got good at it but somehow also never abandoned it to switch to the more dominant hand; for all her life her handwriting was just awful, and very difficult to read.



Our Aspie kid had the same issue with dysgraphia. He had real difficulty with spacing letters when he printed things; teachers were always grading him down; they said that they could not read what he had written because he scattered the letters all over the page and they couldn't put the intended words together. He was in Catholic school, however, and the style of cursive they taught was difficult for him. We bought Handwriting Without Tears and had him learn a simpler cursive style at home, and that took care of it; suddenly the words came together properly. He was MUCH happier once he switched, and to this day, as an adult, when he has to print something on a form, it's still cursive, but with spaces between the letters.



The issue of which hand you eat with is generally not considered an issue of handedness, it's cultural etiquette. (In some countries the prohibition against eating left-handed has the force of taboo, because of traditional toileting practices.)

I'm right-handed, but my Irish immigrant parents taught us to eat left-handed, as they grew up with the Continental "fork in the left hand" style that is standard practice in Europe. American-style table settings assume that one is eating with the fork in the right hand. (The US is the only culture that does that fork-switching maneuver to allow diners to use the knife with the dominant hand when cutting meat.; which natural lefties obviously do not need to do.) The nuns at my US school (who were mostly not American-born, btw) were instructed to teach us American table manners, and insisted that we use our forks right-handed. My mother was appalled by what she saw as sloppy American table manners, and insisted that we keep our forks properly tines-down in our left hands at home. So in my family, we children all developed the habit of eating left-handed at home and right-handed in public. As an adult, I've mostly gone over to using Continental style full-time, and that is how I normally set my table if we are having a formally-set holiday dinner. However, people who meet me for the first time in a restaurant setting sometimes assume I'm left-handed, which makes my DH laugh, as he IS left-handed.

PS: Most Catholic schools used Palmer Method in the early part of the 20th century, but switched to Zaner-Bloser in the 1950s, while a method called D'Nealian was most popular in US public schools during the postwar era. This nifty chart shows a whole lot of different styles: https://www.christianbook.com/page/homeschool/handwriting/handwriting-comparison-chart. The REALLY pretty script that you tend to see in letters written in the 19th century is Spencerian script; that was very labor-intensive to learn, and lost favor in most schools around the time of WW1.
I stared at similar writings on the wall every school day from K-6th grade and after looking at the link, I have no earthly idea what 'method' we were taught. :confused3 I started school in 1981.
 
I was in Catholic school in 1966/1967 learning “penmanship” and I recall that using whatever hand felt comfortable was allowed. I was always intrigued by my left handed classmates as everyone in my immediate family was right handed. What I can’t forget is learning to write with fountain pens rather than ball points. I don’t think we were permitted to use ball point pens until the early ‘70s.
Same here.. I'm not left handed, however, I had a lot of friends that were. I attended Catholic school from 1954 to 1963 and don't recall any time someone was even commented on someone being left handed. We did find it comical that they had to write basically upside down so their hand wouldn't drag through wet ink. Actually felt more sorry for them then anything. Everything was geared to right handed people in wing desks and scissors, etc.
 
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