The Running Thread - 2018

ATYQOTD: I signed up for Dopey via a travel agent! Even though I'm 45 minutes or so from WDW I'm staying on site, but having wife/mom guilt about that. I'm thinking after the first two morning wake up calls for the races that guilt will be gone.
I am choosing to believe this is normal- I'm right there with you.

DW is experiencing this currently... More so worried about leaving the kids. After all it will be the first time we leave both of them for a weekend so I get it. I don't have the same feeling, I will miss them and it will make me look forward to the next trip with them. Does this make me a bad person?
Absolutely not. I do believe this to be the logical approach. The kids will be fine. And they will probably have a blast without you. This has been the case when DH and I took our first away trip- there was minor disaster (grandma ended up without car seats for daycare pick up) that cost us lots of extra money and stress, and the kids had no idea, grandma rolled with it, and the kids asked if they could have a sleep over weekend at grandma's again. So logically I agreed to this for another time (sans no car seats), but emotionally I was not ok with it leading up to it. Your wife will likely be just fine once you have landed, your schedule is too full for thinking about it!
 
DW is experiencing this currently... More so worried about leaving the kids. After all it will be the first time we leave both of them for a weekend so I get it. I don't have the same feeling, I will miss them and it will make me look forward to the next trip with them. Does this make me a bad person?

She's going to be amazed at how nimble you become in the parks with just two adults. Next time... she'll want 5 days sans kids. :D
 
QOTD: Since today is my Friday and I looking at our schedule for tomorrow morning, EPCOT rope drop and making FP+ for September, I am going to go ahead and ask a non running selfish question. What is a last minute thing to do if you were taking a short trip without the kids?
Do things that your kids can’t do. Whether it’s a ride they aren’t old enough for or going to a bar or something along those lines.
 


ATYQOTD: I signed up for Dopey via a travel agent! Even though I'm 45 minutes or so from WDW I'm staying on site, but having wife/mom guilt about that. I'm thinking after the first two morning wake up calls for the races that guilt will be gone.

I don't know exactly how it works in your house, but I'm guessing that if you were to stay at home, there would be a better than decent chance that someone would get up when you get up one race morning and either a) want/need your attention or b) be annoyed that they woke up because of you ... so really, staying on site will be less stressful from a family standpoint too.

QOTD: Since today is my Friday and I looking at our schedule for tomorrow morning, EPCOT rope drop and making FP+ for September, I am going to go ahead and ask a non running selfish question. What is a last minute thing to do if you were taking a short trip without the kids?

I'd say anything spontaneous and unplanned. When an opportunity pops up, go with it.
Last week (spoiler alert for people who are waiting for me to start recapping my trip on my training journal), we had one day when it turned out we were going to be in three of the four parks, so we did a completely unplanned 4-park day and it was wonderful. Exhausting, but wonderful. We did park icon pictures in each park, so it's not like we were running around everywhere (at AK we didn't make it past the cotton-top tamarins), and it just ended up being something crazy and fun that we've never done before and may never do again.
 
QOTD: Since today is my Friday and I looking at our schedule for tomorrow morning, EPCOT rope drop and making FP+ for September, I am going to go ahead and ask a non running selfish question. What is a last minute thing to do if you were taking a short trip without the kids?
ATTQOTD: Everyone tours differently, so YMMV. We do these short, long weekend, get away, adults only trips w/o kids all the time. Of course our kids are adults, so it is a bit different but our solo trips and trips with our kids are still very different. We typically are more open to do things they want to do when we are with them. When it is just us on these short trips, we do 2 things - one, we usually don't try to cram too much in. These trips are more about "hey we are in Disney and it is great to just be here for a few days" rather than "OMG we are only here for 2 days, we need to hustle to get it all done". And two, we do things our kids don't enjoy like certain shows, hanging out at the Boardwalk or Disney Springs, relaxing at EPCOT, having drinks, trying different restaurants, lounges, etc.
 


Do things that your kids can’t do. Whether it’s a ride they aren’t old enough for or going to a bar or something along those lines.
Amen - alcoholic beverages. :drinking1

My wife and I have taken a vacation without our kids every year. The first few times she felt guilty because they were so young and she was worried that she was going to miss some magical moment in their development. She eventually relaxed about it and now we don't give it a second thought.

If you want to have a great relationship after your kids grow up and move out, you have to keep building that relationship through their childhood. You are not just mommy and daddy - you are also that loving couple who decided to create a life together. Too many couples ignore their relationship through those years and find that they are living with a stranger when the kids move out.
 
Amen - alcoholic beverages. :drinking1

My wife and I have taken a vacation without our kids every year. The first few times she felt guilty because they were so young and she was worried that she was going to miss some magical moment in their development. She eventually relaxed about it and now we don't give it a second thought.

If you want to have a great relationship after your kids grow up and move out, you have to keep building that relationship through their childhood. You are not just mommy and daddy - you are also that loving couple who decided to create a life together. Too many couples ignore their relationship through those years and find that they are living with a stranger when the kids move out.

This is why we do it! I always have the guilt leading up the the trip, I can’t do anything about that. I also want my kids to see healthy marriage habits so THEY will have healthy relationships as adults!

The runDisney trips have been perfect for us. Not only because we have kid-free time somewhere super fun but because we get to accomplish a difficult, healthy goal. I want my kids to understand that part, too.
 
I don't know exactly how it works in your house, but I'm guessing that if you were to stay at home, there would be a better than decent chance that someone would get up when you get up one race morning and either a) want/need your attention or b) be annoyed that they woke up because of you ... so really, staying on site will be less stressful from a family standpoint too.

I'd never get to bed at a decent time. I like to be in bed reading by 7pm and lights out at 8pm for Disney races. I know the family, pets and household stuff will keep me awake. My DH travels for work all the time so I'm on my own a lot. I keep telling myself I deserve the alone time LOL!!! It's just harder for my DH to handle everything on his own plus work his full time job. That's what I worry about. My kids are older so me being gone for 6 days really isn't a big deal to them. They know they'll get take-out every night for dinner. Now that I've done this rambling....it may be a good time for my IL's to visit :idea:
 
QOTD: At what point do you decide that a running shirt or shorts are no longer worthy of wearing for a run?

ATTQOTD: I have yet the throw away a pair of shorts, although I am getting close. The liner is falling apart, but running shorts are $$$. Shirts on the other hand or different. I get so many from races that as soon I one starts falling apart I throw it away.

...Is it annoying if I say "When they no longer spark joy"? :yo-yo: I'm one of those KonMari converts; I donated two thirds of my clothing overall last fall, and when I got my running clothes back out this summer I immediately decided that a pair of shorts I'd kept also needed to go because they just didn't feel right on me.

As a more concrete answer...sometimes I'll discard something just because I don't like it anymore, but more often, now that I've done the work once and narrowed my wardrobe down to only things I enjoy, it does usually come down to things getting worn out. Capris (or any kind of shorts or trousers) with holes in unstrategic places aren't joyful. Neither was the Governor's Cup shirt I discarded because it had started to pill and the texture was driving me nuts. Neither would be an exceptionally stinky garment that I couldn't un-stink (though I haven't had that happen yet).

Some are not worthy right from the start. More and more races around me are giving away tech shirts and some are cheap and not very good. They never make the "rotation". For shirts that age out it is usually that a seam is coming loose or it has a hole.

I use this wash that I got from Amazon and have never had the odor of sweat not come out in one wash. It is 29 cents per ounce and a better deal than Nathan (39 cents) or WIN (31 cents). I read somewhere a while back that the Atsko wash is the exact same as the branded washes but a generic version. I have no idea but it has worked for me.

MmmHMM. I've been a real packrat in the past, and I know that as I start to run races again I'm going to accumulate Stuff. I've gotten a lot better at discarding things I would have found too sentimental to get rid of in the past; I expect I'll keep and display my medals but only hang onto the shirts if I really, truly like them--not just because they happen to have been given to me.

QOTD: Do you wear your running shoes for anything other than running while they are still in your rotation as running shoes or your only pair?

ATTQOTD: Yes and no... I only use my running shoes to run. I do not put them on until I am about to start running and then immediately take them off once completed. I do not keep them on to drive or to do things around the house. The only exception to this rule is for touring the parks. I take the older pair with me since they are on the way out, but still have a decent amount of support in them.

I only have one pair right now, and I only wear them for running, absolutely nothing else. When they get replaced and I stop running in them I'll hang onto them, maybe use them as walking shoes, definitely have them in reserve in case I do any of the muddy obstacle course type of races (I did a one-mile zombie run/obstacle course a few years back and ended up running in really bad shoes because I knew I'd literally be wading through mud for part of it and didn't want to subject my good running shoes to that). When I start to have more retired shoes...I dunno. I'll get rid of them when they stop sparking joy, I guess. That's kind of my answer to everything related to my possessions.

QOTD: We have about a week to go to register for marathon weekend. Are you running any of the races? If so, which ones? Have you decided you are running but not sure which races yet? Anyone going to make a impulse decision?

ATTQOTD: I am running! Going to register for the marathon without a POT since I dont have one and hope that after a run a half this fall I may be able to convince someone at the expo to move me up. It's highly unlikely, but worth a shot. No impulse decisions regarding registration though. Training will go into full effect when we get back from WDW. No more excuses, if yall dont see runs posted next week, yall have my permission to call me out!

Nope. Already committed all of my vacation dollars and vacation hours for the 2018-19 fiscal year to my Disneyland Paris trip, so another major trip is entirely out of the question until fall 2019. On the bright side, my WDW Marathon plans for 2020 are shaping up, and it looks like mmmaaaybe I'll be able to convince my housemate to come along. She has some pretty good reasons to say no (not least that she's planning to open her own shop only six months before the trip), but I'm hopeful that planning it so far ahead of time will make it possible to work around things and make it happen.

I will be keeping an eye on registration and the marathon thread in the coming week, though, to see how it goes for everyone. Want to have a feel for how things will be when it's my turn next year.
 
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If you want to have a great relationship after your kids grow up and move out, you have to keep building that relationship through their childhood. You are not just mommy and daddy - you are also that loving couple who decided to create a life together. Too many couples ignore their relationship through those years and find that they are living with a stranger when the kids move out.
BRB crying. This hit so many feels.

I am currently trying to beg my 6 year old into letting us take her to Disneyland and Universal in a few weeks. She is finally tall enough for the Incredicoaster but it goes upside down so she is freaking out about it. And she doesn't want to go to the Guardians of the Galaxy anymore either. So let me tell you about the fun things I would do on a kid-free trip......
 
ATTQOTD: My kid has 4 legs, and cats don't like to travel, so every trip is sans kids. I would say go to a nice restaurant, such as Flying Fish with a nightcap at Abracabar.

In other news, I got into the NYC virtual under the wire. I will be "running" an additional 13 or so miles before (and maybe a little after) the wine and dine half. But I like my character photos, and I too have a (separate) Cali Grill brunch reservation, so I'll try to get as much done beforehand as I can. :rotfl:
 
ATTQOTD: My kid has 4 legs, and cats don't like to travel, so every trip is sans kids. I would say go to a nice restaurant, such as Flying Fish with a nightcap at Abracabar.

In other news, I got into the NYC virtual under the wire. I will be "running" an additional 13 or so miles before (and maybe a little after) the wine and dine half. But I like my character photos, and I too have a (separate) Cali Grill brunch reservation, so I'll try to get as much done beforehand as I can. :rotfl:

You gonna be sprintin’ around that parking lot!
 
ATTQOTD: I agree with do something that you can't do when the kids are around. Also, I totally get the mom guilt thing, but I would kill for a vacation with just my husband! We are not fortunate to have anyone who is willing to watch our 3 kids for more than one night. So yes, for the last 15 years, we have never had a vacation without the kids. So party like a rock star, run around naked, etc...:D
 
In other news, I got into the NYC virtual under the wire. I will be "running" an additional 13 or so miles before (and maybe a little after) the wine and dine half. But I like my character photos, and I too have a (separate) Cali Grill brunch reservation, so I'll try to get as much done beforehand as I can. :rotfl:

Just remember - you can't pause your GPS (well, you can, but the time limit goes by elapsed time, not "time my GPS app/watch was running"), so take that into account when thinking about your extra miles.
See you in 2019!
 

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