Welcome to all of the new folks!
There were a few questions, so I thought I'd throw my two cents in...
For fireworks, we watched from Yuli's spot. It was perfect! We could actually see the JumboTron across the lake, so we still had a decent "view" of the preshow. The SWW fireworks are my favorite nighttime show. They were fantastic, with that music, loved it! If we go this year, it will just be ODS and me. I may pick up the DP package if they do it again. I'd like to do that one night and watch from Yuli's spot another.
I didn't find the crowds on the first Friday to be terrible. We did not go to the shopping area that day...in fact, we did not go at rope drop. We went over after lunch. Perhaps they had dispersed some by then. I'd say we got about half of our character m&gs out of the way Friday afternoon, half Saturday morning, and two stragglers late Sunday afternoon. We did all of the lines except for Vader and Fab6 (we did meals), and we also missed the regular clone troopers.
We did all three meals. DH liked breakfast. This is one I would repeat with ODS and myself (since I didn't go). H&V dinner was ok. The food is average. The atmosphere is absolute chaos. I am glad ODS met them dressed up once, but that dinner was a one-timer for us. Rebel Hangar was fabulous. The food was very good. The atmosphere and characters were wonderful. We did breakfast and RH on non-weekend days - breakfast opened our trip, RH closed it out. ODS and I did H&V the night just the two of us stayed late for fireworks. If you can swing it, I recommend meals on off days, so it doesn't cut into your SWW time. Personally, if I could only do one meal, it would be RH.
I highly recommend JTA on an off day. Even on an off day, it's a mad dash. Plus, you aren't worrying about a time that may interfere with shows (if you are doing shows). You could always do it on an off day to be sure you get it done, and then try during the weekend if your kiddo wants a different Sith.
Also, if your kiddo gets asked to be in the parade, do it! We opted not to, not realizing the kids went first and had a great viewing of the parade from the front. Assuming they do the same, I would say yes in a heartbeat.
Um, I think that's all, but I feel like there was one more thing I wanted to share...I guess I need more coffee.