Colleen27
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Mar 31, 2007
It used to be that engagement rings were whatever your birthstone was. But I guess women started getting jealous that some birthstones cost more than others.
I'd probably have been more interested in a pretty stone if that was still the custom. I love my birthstone - emerald - but have never been a fan of diamonds. DH had to have a diamond, though. He worried enough about what people thought about the fact that we were marrying fairly young and did everything "backwards" (had kids and a house before marriage), and that a "different" engagement band would make it look like he couldn't afford a proper ring.
Another 10 years go by and I replaced DH's band as an anniversary gift. It was a much heavier band (all our bands were gold though) and he loved it. The following year he gave me a matching band that he had small diamonds placed in. I loved it!
I replaced DH's last year from Overstock.com, of all places. He lost his original after taking it off at work. I didn't mind him not wearing one but he wanted a replacement so when I stumbled across a titanium band with a rosewood inlay I ordered it for him. He's a builder by trade and a woodworker on the side so it really is the perfect ring for him, and he's learned his lesson about leaving it at home when he knows he won't be able to leave it on all day. It cost me a whopping $50 but it is so much more "him" than his original plain gold band was.