i will edit it for you.Misread previous post and it won't let me edit
It should be the disabled person and one other or two that is allowed on the DAS card, the rest should have to stay in line and wait...... Your family or group is not disabled . I have a nephew who is D. S. and we take turns with him in lines ,so yes I do know how it is . But he also is learning that the world is not perfect and you do not get it your way all the time. I am so proud of him because he is growing into a young intelligent man.
We had the GAC last summer at DL and it was not front of the line access. My daughter ended up having a meltdown anyway because the people mover had been removed. We took her back to the hotel for the rest of the day so she learns she cannot just have a tantrum. It happens no matter how hard anyone tries and it would never cross my mind to sue anyone.
You had equal opportunity to ride the ride, it's just that your opportunity took longer. Legally, that's all Disney has to provide.
Even if it wanted to, Disney can't give someone in a wheelchair more than that because it takes longer to load and unload or get between attractions. If they opened that Pandora's Box, how is the time factor different for you than someone who chooses to walk slow. (Besides the disability, which Disney isn't legally allowed to ask about).
Well, that is one way to handle the situation and that is their choice. Another choice is to take a child to the world's most accommodating amusement park where the accommodations provided do not harm or interfere with any other guests. No parent who favors one approach should be forced to choose the other path. I defy anyone to go volunteer at GKTW for a week and then come back and tell us that those kids shouldn't be or don't deserve to be at WDW.
well ya know what? then they shouldn't even be there at all. I have a nephew, non verbal, profoundly autistic and a danger to himself and everyone around him when he has meltdowns. so his parents DO NOT BRING HIM ANYWHERE WHERE THEY CANNOT MITIGATE ONE.
his siblings have never been to Disney,.,or any amusement park because his parents know that it can't be done safely or enjoyably.
if Junior doesn't understand then you wait until he does.. or you don't put him in the situation at all.
going to Disney is NOT a god given right for anyone. let alone being allowed to bully your way to the front just because Junior has a disease.
I don't think the argument that some kids with special needs can only spend 3 hours in the park should be able to do as many rides in that 3 hour period that other families are doing in 8. Sorry but if you know your child can only last 3 hours that isn't Disney's problem, it's yours. If you choose to spend the money to go there knowing your child has those limitations, you have to deal with it. What about all the non-disabled families that get sick an hour after entering the park and have to leave; should they get a GAC the next day so they can make up the time they lost the day before because of illness??? What if after arriving at the parks a close family member dies back home and you have to leave missing your whole vacation??? Stuff happens. We've had trips where one of us got sick and spent the majority of our time in the hotel room. Who knew I could sue Disney for not giving us a magical time. I think those people in that lawsuit need to wake up and realize Disney is not responsible for their happiness or their child's. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness. If the DAS is now not going to make your child or your family happy, then don't go. It's that simple, it really is that simple.
>Applauds< Great post!I am still bothered about this lawsuit. I think it comes down to something called personal responsibility. I have a child with neurological disabilities: executive function disorder, sensory integration disorder, central auditory processing, non-verbal learning disability, limited fine motor skills, legally blind, social skill impairment, but is not diagnosed on the autism spectrum. My DD has right frontal lobe brain damage - she has "invisible" disabilities.
I work everyday to make sure that my DD is successful. I and my DD work all the time to help her fit into society and not be viewed as "disabled". When she was younger, if I didn't set up the environment for success, she would easily meltdown. She is pretty good at knowing what she needs now and tries hard to accommodate herself.
My DD needs to sit up front and center at the ballet. She loves the ballet! Should I sue because the seats are sold out or more expensive than I can afford? Should I demand that the theater make those people in the front move so my DD can sit there? If my DD doesn't sit front and center at the theater, she gets frustrated and could have a meltdown. Do I threaten those around us that my DD could meltdown and get physical when she is removing herself?
NO! I would never put my DD in that situation! I wouldn't put myself in that situation! I have learned to buy Season tickets. My sister buys Season tickets with her friends so we are all sitting together. For the Nutcracker every year, I am up at o'dark thirty in the cold to stand in line to get tickets. The available seats determine when we can see the ballet. Maybe I should say that the theater isn't disability friendly and sue them! Maybe the ADA compliant access isn't individual enough for my DD! The theater hates us - plan and simple
Yes, it would be lovely if I could just even go to the grocery store without having to make 2 lists (one for my DD and one for me) and take 2 hours because we are always having to stop and discuss prices, weigh, compare, etc. But I am teaching a child.
It would be absolutely wonderful if I could take my DD to Disneyland, or WDW and not have to plan, think, re-think, re-plan, make accommodations, make adjustments, worry, etc. I would love to tour without taking the time to sit down and have my DD look at the map, check out her plan, etc. I would love to take her and not have to worry about her getting overwhelmed, frustrated, tired, etc. But, guess what? That is WHAT EVERYONE GOES THROUGH in some form of another. The 4-5 year old gets tired, frustrated, overwhelmed, etc. The 2 year old needs a nap. Everyone gets hungry. Planning a trip is hard, takes time, takes adjustments, one accommodates everyone in their family. This isn't new. Is it Disney's fault that it is this way? None of this is Disney's fault. They provide the Parks, the attractions, and ADA compliant access. It is up to the individuals to decide IF they can go there or not. It is up to the individuals to decide how they tour.
If I lived my Disneyland or WDW, I could see how it would be nice to go over after school and hit 4 headliners and be home by dinner. Or go to Disney and let your child ride the same ride over and over. Who wouldn't like that?? Is that possible for anyone? Is it Disney's fault because it isn't?
I guess I just don't understand how horrible others have it or how difficult it is on others. Flame away!
I am still bothered about this lawsuit. I think it comes down to something called personal responsibility. I have a child with neurological disabilities: executive function disorder, sensory integration disorder, central auditory processing, non-verbal learning disability, limited fine motor skills, legally blind, social skill impairment, but is not diagnosed on the autism spectrum. My DD has right frontal lobe brain damage - she has "invisible" disabilities.
I work everyday to make sure that my DD is successful. I and my DD work all the time to help her fit into society and not be viewed as "disabled". When she was younger, if I didn't set up the environment for success, she would easily meltdown. She is pretty good at knowing what she needs now and tries hard to accommodate herself.
My DD needs to sit up front and center at the ballet. She loves the ballet! Should I sue because the seats are sold out or more expensive than I can afford? Should I demand that the theater make those people in the front move so my DD can sit there? If my DD doesn't sit front and center at the theater, she gets frustrated and could have a meltdown. Do I threaten those around us that my DD could meltdown and get physical when she is removing herself?
NO! I would never put my DD in that situation! I wouldn't put myself in that situation! I have learned to buy Season tickets. My sister buys Season tickets with her friends so we are all sitting together. For the Nutcracker every year, I am up at o'dark thirty in the cold to stand in line to get tickets. The available seats determine when we can see the ballet. Maybe I should say that the theater isn't disability friendly and sue them! Maybe the ADA compliant access isn't individual enough for my DD! The theater hates us - plan and simple
Yes, it would be lovely if I could just even go to the grocery store without having to make 2 lists (one for my DD and one for me) and take 2 hours because we are always having to stop and discuss prices, weigh, compare, etc. But I am teaching a child.
It would be absolutely wonderful if I could take my DD to Disneyland, or WDW and not have to plan, think, re-think, re-plan, make accommodations, make adjustments, worry, etc. I would love to tour without taking the time to sit down and have my DD look at the map, check out her plan, etc. I would love to take her and not have to worry about her getting overwhelmed, frustrated, tired, etc. But, guess what? That is WHAT EVERYONE GOES THROUGH in some form of another. The 4-5 year old gets tired, frustrated, overwhelmed, etc. The 2 year old needs a nap. Everyone gets hungry. Planning a trip is hard, takes time, takes adjustments, one accommodates everyone in their family. This isn't new. Is it Disney's fault that it is this way? None of this is Disney's fault. They provide the Parks, the attractions, and ADA compliant access. It is up to the individuals to decide IF they can go there or not. It is up to the individuals to decide how they tour.
If I lived my Disneyland or WDW, I could see how it would be nice to go over after school and hit 4 headliners and be home by dinner. Or go to Disney and let your child ride the same ride over and over. Who wouldn't like that?? Is that possible for anyone? Is it Disney's fault because it isn't?
I guess I just don't understand how horrible others have it or how difficult it is on others. Flame away!
It should be the disabled person and one other or two that is allowed on the DAS card, the rest should have to stay in line and wait...... Your family or group is not disabled . I have a nephew who is D. S. and we take turns with him in lines ,so yes I do know how it is . But he also is learning that the world is not perfect and you do not get it your way all the time. I am so proud of him because he is growing into a young intelligent man.
Thank you guys for your posts (especially parents with ASD kids)! I was going to post how absolutely asinine this was, but figured I'd get b/c I don't have a kid on ASD and "couldn't possibly understand".
My initial reaction was "what do you do with your kids when you have to wait other places?" Would you also sue your local hair cut place because yeah, you made an appointment but the stylist got stuck with a demanding customer and you had to wait 10 minutes, so you didn't get "front of the line" access? My second thought (and probably the "ruder" of the two) was "if you don't like it, don't go ... Disney is not an essential service, you won't die if you can't get on rides immediately."
Yes, meltdowns do occur at Disney. But how many of those are due to overstimulation in general, not the waiting time for a ride? Even "normal" kids have meltdowns over the wait times, does that mean that those parents should get front of the line access, too? And I'm sure meltdowns occur in non-Disney situations, so how do those parents handle them then?
But my favorite line:
No widespread problem of abuse? So I guess those stories of people hiring themselves out as "tour guides" because they used a wheelchair were completely made up? Same thing with the teenagers that would rent a wheelchair and take turns being pushed around in it because they knew they'd get front of the line access? Hate to break it to these people, but the ones that services are intended for are typically not the ones that abuse them ... it's the people that the services aren't even for that abuse them. Without having some way to "prove" that you're disabled (which asking is against the ADA), Disney can't restrict the service to only the people that "need" it, so they made it unattractive to people that don't need it. Will people still game the system because they think they're getting some great benefit? Yes. But there will be a lot fewer of them once word spreads.
I am still bothered about this lawsuit. I think it comes down to something called personal responsibility. I have a child with neurological disabilities: executive function disorder, sensory integration disorder, central auditory processing, non-verbal learning disability, limited fine motor skills, legally blind, social skill impairment, but is not diagnosed on the autism spectrum. My DD has right frontal lobe brain damage - she has "invisible" disabilities. I work everyday to make sure that my DD is successful. I and my DD work all the time to help her fit into society and not be viewed as "disabled". When she was younger, if I didn't set up the environment for success, she would easily meltdown. She is pretty good at knowing what she needs now and tries hard to accommodate herself. My DD needs to sit up front and center at the ballet. She loves the ballet! Should I sue because the seats are sold out or more expensive than I can afford? Should I demand that the theater make those people in the front move so my DD can sit there? If my DD doesn't sit front and center at the theater, she gets frustrated and could have a meltdown. Do I threaten those around us that my DD could meltdown and get physical when she is removing herself? NO! I would never put my DD in that situation! I wouldn't put myself in that situation! I have learned to buy Season tickets. My sister buys Season tickets with her friends so we are all sitting together. For the Nutcracker every year, I am up at o'dark thirty in the cold to stand in line to get tickets. The available seats determine when we can see the ballet. Maybe I should say that the theater isn't disability friendly and sue them! Maybe the ADA compliant access isn't individual enough for my DD! The theater hates us - plan and simple Yes, it would be lovely if I could just even go to the grocery store without having to make 2 lists (one for my DD and one for me) and take 2 hours because we are always having to stop and discuss prices, weigh, compare, etc. But I am teaching a child. It would be absolutely wonderful if I could take my DD to Disneyland, or WDW and not have to plan, think, re-think, re-plan, make accommodations, make adjustments, worry, etc. I would love to tour without taking the time to sit down and have my DD look at the map, check out her plan, etc. I would love to take her and not have to worry about her getting overwhelmed, frustrated, tired, etc. But, guess what? That is WHAT EVERYONE GOES THROUGH in some form of another. The 4-5 year old gets tired, frustrated, overwhelmed, etc. The 2 year old needs a nap. Everyone gets hungry. Planning a trip is hard, takes time, takes adjustments, one accommodates everyone in their family. This isn't new. Is it Disney's fault that it is this way? None of this is Disney's fault. They provide the Parks, the attractions, and ADA compliant access. It is up to the individuals to decide IF they can go there or not. It is up to the individuals to decide how they tour. If I lived my Disneyland or WDW, I could see how it would be nice to go over after school and hit 4 headliners and be home by dinner. Or go to Disney and let your child ride the same ride over and over. Who wouldn't like that?? Is that possible for anyone? Is it Disney's fault because it isn't? I guess I just don't understand how horrible others have it or how difficult it is on others. Flame away!
I don't think the argument that some kids with special needs can only spend 3 hours in the park should be able to do as many rides in that 3 hour period that other families are doing in 8. Sorry but if you know your child can only last 3 hours that isn't Disney's problem, it's yours. If you choose to spend the money to go there knowing your child has those limitations, you have to deal with it. What about all the non-disabled families that get sick an hour after entering the park and have to leave; should they get a GAC the next day so they can make up the time they lost the day before because of illness??? What if after arriving at the parks a close family member dies back home and you have to leave missing your whole vacation??? Stuff happens. We've had trips where one of us got sick and spent the majority of our time in the hotel room. Who knew I could sue Disney for not giving us a magical time. I think those people in that lawsuit need to wake up and realize Disney is not responsible for their happiness or their child's. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness. If the DAS is now not going to make your child or your family happy, then don't go. It's that simple, it really is that simple.
Nobody is disabled by choice. I guess you think the Make A Wish kids should have to wait in line too. If a special needs kid can only spend 3 hours in the park, why not let him or her ride a bunch of rides? It'll make a big difference to that child and his or her family. The family is making countless sacrifices throughout the year that I cannot even imagine. In the grand scheme of things is it a problem to let them go to the front of the line? Not to me...
Nobody is disabled by choice. I guess you think the Make A Wish kids should have to wait in line too. If a special needs kid can only spend 3 hours in the park, why not let him or her ride a bunch of rides? It'll make a big difference to that child and his or her family. The family is making countless sacrifices throughout the year that I cannot even imagine. In the grand scheme of things is it a problem to let them go to the front of the line? Not to me...